Sandra Culley 20-10-1959 – 07-11-2011
November 7th, 2011
Sandra died last night, as she was holding her son’s hand, as peacefully as could be expected under the circumstances. I had seen her myself only a few hours before when she still looked as if she could last a couple more days at least. She had said to me she wished it would be all over soon, but I don’t expect she thought it would be over this soon…
I’m glad she’s no longer in pain but I wish things could’ve gone differently.
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You will be in my thoughts today as you have been these past few weeks.
I’m Reinder’s wife. Over the last weeks your struggles have been on our lips. You have been in our thoughts warmly and we send our deepest condolences.
Oh honey… Been thinking of you both a lot over the last few weeks and didn’t know what to say. Both me and Peter send our love.
So sorry.
So very, very sorry to hear this. We’re thinking of you.
I’m so sorry. Both Gideon and I send our love too.
I’m so sorry for your loss. If there’s anything we can do from across the Channel, you’ve but to name it.
Thinking of you as always.
Both Menno and I send our deepest condolences to you – we’ve been thinking of you so often over the last few weeks.
God bless,
I’m sorry.
I am so sorry, Martin.
You have my deepest sympathy. If there’s anything I can do to help, just ask.
Much sympathy here.
So very sorry. My thoughts are with you.
So damned young. I’m so sorry for you, and for her son and other family.
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you
I’m really so very, very sorry.
I’m very sorry to hear this. Our thoughts are with you and your family
Our condolences to you and both families.
Hold on to the gladness she’s no longer in pain.
I’m so sorry Martin. My deepest condolences to you.
I don’t think there’s anything I can say but offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
I’m very sorry, Martin.
Thank you for telling us, Martin. I hope you have people to talk to and help you keep on keeping on x
So very sorry to hear this, and sorry for your loss. And ours.
So sorry, Sandra was one of the Good Guys :( I feel for you alll.
So very sorry to hear this. Thoughts with you x
I’m so sorry Martin. We haven’t seen each other in a long time, but Sandra was a lovely, kind and funny woman who will be greatly missed by a lot of people. I’m glad you and her son could see her.
Our sympathies are with you.
I’m sorry, Martin.
Martin, my condolences to you and Sandra’s son. Courage and strength in the days and months ahead.
I’m so sorry. I hadn’t known this was coming; wish I could’ve sent some kind words while she could’ve heard them.
Bye, Sand.
Hello Martin
I know we’ve never met but I was desperately saddened to hear that Sandra was gone. I ‘m so glad she had you and Simon with her.
You have my email address and I would be grateful if you could email me.
Oh bugger. I’m so sorry Martin.
Sympathy and condolences, Martin.
I am so sorry for your loss, and failing to find the words to say it.
We’d fallen out of contact rather over the years, but I’ll still remember how she taught me being a communist wasn’t evil when I was 17 :D
May her memory be a blessing.
Much sympathy, Martin. Hang onto the good times.
Hi Martin. I know we’ve never met but, same as Sue, my condolences. I was expecting this, but it still came as a shock. I’m so glad she ended her days surrounded by your love, she deserved it.
My thoughts will be with you & Simon tomorrow. I just wish Sue & me could be there too. xx
Love never dies, comrade, but it’s a damn shame that people have to. My thoughts are with you.
Hi Martin – My heartfelt condolences and love. I will remember the ’04 con and the Hippo dance….
Sandra will be missed
Dit zuigt zo. Heel veel sterkte!