{"id":3357,"date":"2011-11-20T13:45:14","date_gmt":"2011-11-20T18:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/2011\/11\/20\/sandra-two-weeks-on\/"},"modified":"2011-11-20T14:09:27","modified_gmt":"2011-11-20T19:09:27","slug":"sandra-two-weeks-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/2011\/11\/20\/sandra-two-weeks-on\/","title":{"rendered":"Sandra: two weeks on."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><br \/>\n<object width=\"640\" height=\"480\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/v\/KwQHBOII8ss?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\"><\/param><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\"><\/param><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\"><\/param><embed src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/v\/KwQHBOII8ss?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\"><\/embed><\/object><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<p>\nNeither Sandra nor I believe in an afterlife, but if her ghost is floating nearby somewhere right now she would be so pissed. Because if there&#8217;s one song guaranteed to drive her nuts it was the Wu Tang&#8217;s Gravel Pit. Just mentioning it would give her an earworm. So if ectoplasm starts to drip from the walls tonight I&#8217;ll know ghosts are real&#8230;\n<\/p>\n<p>\nMeanwhile it&#8217;s been almost two weeks since she died &#8212; it&#8217;ll be exactly two weeks at 2:30 tonight. Last week was mostly a blur, this week I went back to work and &#8220;normal&#8221; life but it has been strange. Strange to not live a life revolving around hospital visits. One of the things that helped, but last week and this week has been to immerse myself in a bit of <a href=\"http:\/\/tvtropes.org\/pmwiki\/pmwiki.php\/Main\/ArchiveBinge\">archive binging<\/a>, first reading through the entire <a href=\"somethingpositive.net\/\">Something Positive archive<\/a> while I was sitting next to Sandra&#8217;s body, then continuing with <a href=\"http:\/\/sluggy.com\/\">Sluggy Freelance<\/a> when Something Positive had run out of archive&#8230;\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI don&#8217;t want to dwell on her death; rather I would like to use my Sundays to remember Sandra with a new blog feature. So for the next few Sundays or more I&#8217;ll be writing about her and her interests.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nBecause I don&#8217;t want to wake up one morning and realise I&#8217;ve forgotten her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Neither Sandra nor I believe in an afterlife, but if her ghost is floating nearby somewhere right now she would be so pissed. Because if there&#8217;s one song guaranteed to drive her nuts it was the Wu Tang&#8217;s Gravel Pit. Just mentioning it would give her an earworm. So if ectoplasm starts to drip from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[2492],"class_list":["post-3357","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-posts-interesting-only-to-me","tag-sandra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3357","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3357"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3357\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3358,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3357\/revisions\/3358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3357"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3357"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cloggie.org\/wissewords2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3357"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}